After I read Monica's post A Good Dude I began to think about Good Dudes. Do I know any good dudes? Hmmmm. I know a few, but I'm either related to them or they are taken. I don't think I know any good dudes right now.
I knew a good dude - well I guess I still know him. I say he's a GD, because in Monica's criteria, GD's don't string you along. However, this GD did not quit calling me because he realized that I'm not the one - as in Monica's scenario. Nope, he has decided I am not the one BUT he likes me a lot and wants to be my friend.
He calls me almost everyday. We have great stimulating conversations. We've hung out a few times and we have a really good time together. We click. I know what you're thinking. You're thinking, "maybe you think yall click, but obviously he doesn't." Nope, he talks about how we click, how much we have in common.....blah, blah, blah. But at the end of the day - he wants us to be friends. I HATE THAT SHIT!!!!!
When I meet a GD I do not want to be just friends. I have enough friends who are not GD's. I want him to be the one, know I'm the one and shut the fuck up. Friends?!? I know this sounds unreasonable - but hell it's honest.
Maybe it would be better if he used Monica's scenario and just stopped calling period! Just leave me alone. Stop dangling his GD-ness in my face if I can't have it! All this calling and talking and GD shit makes me like his ass more. It makes me anticipate the calls and hope he will see "the light." That he'll see the wonder of all that is Me! That he'll see that I'm what's hot on the streets! ( LOL !!! I told him the hot on the streets thing......I'm sick, I know.)
The sane thing to do would be just hang out with him. Let what happens happen. If it's not to be, it won't. Don't limit myself to seeing only him. Keep it moving. I get it - however there is this . Frutting impairs sane judgment - even with GD's.
Friends???!!!!???? I'm what's hot on the streets nucca!