After I read Monica's post A Good Dude I began to think about Good Dudes. Do I know any good dudes? Hmmmm. I know a few, but I'm either related to them or they are taken. I don't think I know any good dudes right now.
I knew a good dude - well I guess I still know him. I say he's a GD, because in Monica's criteria, GD's don't string you along. However, this GD did not quit calling me because he realized that I'm not the one - as in Monica's scenario. Nope, he has decided I am not the one BUT he likes me a lot and wants to be my friend.
He calls me almost everyday. We have great stimulating conversations. We've hung out a few times and we have a really good time together. We click. I know what you're thinking. You're thinking, "maybe you think yall click, but obviously he doesn't." Nope, he talks about how we click, how much we have in common.....blah, blah, blah. But at the end of the day - he wants us to be friends. I HATE THAT SHIT!!!!!
When I meet a GD I do not want to be just friends. I have enough friends who are not GD's. I want him to be the one, know I'm the one and shut the fuck up. Friends?!? I know this sounds unreasonable - but hell it's honest.
Maybe it would be better if he used Monica's scenario and just stopped calling period! Just leave me alone. Stop dangling his GD-ness in my face if I can't have it! All this calling and talking and GD shit makes me like his ass more. It makes me anticipate the calls and hope he will see "the light." That he'll see the wonder of all that is Me! That he'll see that I'm what's hot on the streets! ( LOL !!! I told him the hot on the streets thing......I'm sick, I know.)
The sane thing to do would be just hang out with him. Let what happens happen. If it's not to be, it won't. Don't limit myself to seeing only him. Keep it moving. I get it - however there is this . Frutting impairs sane judgment - even with GD's.
Friends???!!!!???? I'm what's hot on the streets nucca!
7 comments:
Personally, I don't think he knows what the fuck he wants. He's out trying to play "tag" and you're sitting on "glue".
KZ
@ Zed, You are right as rain and I'm peeling the "glue" off my ass as we speak!
That's a tough situation to be in. I'm used to it happening the way around, though.
Not that you asked for advice but, as long as you enjoy his company, I think you should... enjoy his company.
West, you're probably right. That makes sense....however, my compulsive need to have things how I want them to be, and to be in control of what happens to me prevents me from using that frame of logic. LOL
Translation - I'm not that grown yet. : )
Run don't walk away. It just sounds like a world of hurt is headed your way. Just my 2 cents.
When I meet a GD I do not want to be just friends. I have enough friends who are not GD's. I want him to be the one, know I'm the one and shut the fuck up. Friends?!? I know this sounds unreasonable - but hell it's honest.
OH MY GOD!! I could have written this myself!! I got enough cotton pickin friends!!! If I wanted a damn friend, I have taken up a knitting class and found people I could talk about afghans and caftans and what not!
I know you appreciate the sentiment, but like you said, you are gonna keep catching feelings if you continue to spend time with him and you have to decide what is best for you even if it doesn't feel like it when you do it.
JJ and M Boogie - the "run don't walk" votes have it! LOL
1969 said it best in a recent blog, "If a man wants to be with you he will act like it." That's it in a nutshell.
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