Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Serial Dating 2

I'm getting the hang of this serial dating thing. I'm stepping out of my comfort zone, making contact with men first, speaking to folks and putting myself out there. The more casual I am about the whole thing the more reponses I get. I'm loving that. However, introducing yourself to strangers who you may never speak to again becomes redundant after a while.....but I shall push through. : )

So far there is "The African" and a possible. I don' t exactly know what to do with "The African". It's clear to me that he wants a soley sexual relationship - and he could be the one Industious counseled me about. The one that you only have sex with, thus giving you the opportunity to get to know the others without having sex with them. Hmmm, sounds good, but not so easy for me to do. Industrious was worried about my ability to pull this off and she may be right. I'm not accustomed to having a relationship that is soley based on sex, it just doesn't sit well with me. I know - I'm old enough, I'm all liberated and shit.....but deep down inside I'm a one man woman. And I'm not sure I want to be reformed.

I may have to amend my serial dating plan. Drop the "just for sex guy", and stick to the meet and date four guys part.

The Not Ghetto Dating Site has turned out to be a bust. I have closed my account and moved on. I can't pay them to send me crappy matches, I can do that shit for free on my own. Like I've been doing.

I'll keep yall posted on "The Possible" and the next three.

1 comment:

TDJ said...

Yeah, I understand the contrast - dating vs sex and dating. Do whatever makes you comfortable. Good luck and keep us updated.