All I can say about The Ghetto Dating Site (TGDS) is it's a very bad place. Don't go there and don't let your friends go there. The majority of the men there are looking for one thing. Yep, the kitty-kat!
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not mad at them for looking for the kitty-kat, just be honest about it. Instead of being forthcoming about their intentions they spout all these ideals about wanting a woman who is Christian, humble, loving, family oriented, blah, blah, blah....... In reality what they really want is a sex partner, and they want it immediately. I just don't understand men. They make things much harder than they have to be. There are plenty of women who just want to have sex too. If men would state their intentions clearly and honestly they could get a lot more hassle free play from women who are looking for the same thing they are. I guess that makes too much sense. Plus men like to think they tricked you into giving it up. Silly so and so's.
Then there are the old as Moses men on the ghetto site. And guess what! They are white. Old ass white men, in their 70's, looking for younger black women. Is this some type of trend? Did I miss something? There's one very persistent one who sends me lots of messages. I don't respond because it's all too odd, and I might throw up. No, thank you Mr. Seventy Five Year Old Geezer.
Meanwhile, The Not Ghetto At All Site (TNGAAS) is not a lot better. They ask you sixty five million questions to get to know your personality type, your love type, your blood type, yada yada. So you would think their matches would be pretty good, right? Wrong! They have matched me with 3 or 4 ministers and missionaries. White ministers and missionaries. One of whom lived in some place like Peru! Give me a break! I limited my matches to 300 miles away. I live in Columbus, Ohio. I indicated I prefer tall men, at least taller than me, I'm 5'4. Why do they send me matches with men that are no taller than 5'6 ? If you've been reading this blog for a minute you know I am not the one to be following some midget missionary across Peru or any damn where else for that matter. There is something wrong with this picture. I need my money back immediately, ASAP, like right the eff now!
I did meet one gentleman worthy of my company on TGDS. I was a little leery about responding to him at first because he is an African, and I had more than a few preconceived notions about Africans. You know, do they want a green card, is this some type of scheme, will he have six wives...... He too was persistent, but unlike the old dude he kept it cool. So we chatted on line, talked on the phone and then we met. Yep. That's all I'm going to say about that for now. : )
Until next time....let the serial dating commence!